The Faking Business
Monday, 7;30am
Women. There's a simple basic fact that would never change across time -- men can't live without sex and women can't live without makeup. While many women tend to be moderate in making beautifying themselves, there is a certain percentage of women who just loves exaggeration and here I have some thoughtful insights on what I actually mean.
There are two groups of women; the naturals & the fakers. The naturals are women who are not just naturally beautiful ( which is a gift of God ) they also posses a strong personality that men would define as, "women for keeps". A classic example would be Audrey Hepburn. Look closer to her facial characteristics and you can right away recognizer that smile on her face proves that her beauty and simplicity comes from within. On the other hand, the fakers are women who I would classify as not only fakes beauty (physical appearance) but also fakes their character and personality tremendously. Two words -- Pam Anderson.
All my life I've came across many types of women -- sexy, brilliant, vulnerable, headstrong, loud, quiet, funny, simple, soft-spoken, weird, emotional, vibrant, dull and the list goes on. Believe me or not, I've met more fake women that natural ones. Well, rare pearls are so precious, they are worth digging for right?. A real man would certainly know how to differentiate between the natural and the fake one. Usually most ordinary men are just suckers for the fake ones most probably the cause is sex, sex and just sex.
Here I would like to emphasize on my encounters of fake women during my times in the university. Basically the fakers would try their best to fake almost anything that comes to mind. First off, the make-over. If you want to indentify the faker, just take a good look at her face when she walks under the sunlight. The "glow" from the foundation that covers up her face including the thick layer of lipstick ( shocking red/pink shades )that makes her look as if she has just walked out of performing in a Chinese opera would scare you on the spot. I don't see no crime in putting soft lip-gloss on. But why in the world a woman puts on a solid red lipstick when she's aint going to a ball, or maybe some specific occasion that truly demands it. The fakers hide their real look beneath the heavy make up they have put on. Just imagine how does a cake really looks underneath thick glorious icing. If make up was mend for aesthetic values, it should be used moderately.
The skin. It's easy to distinguish women who wears a two-piece bikini at the beach (obviously for swimming purpose) and those who are daring to bare their skin unneccesarily at almost any occasions. The fake women are usually unsecured with how well their facial attributes could attract public attention especially men. So the easy solution would be to bare skin (plus the cleavage) as much as possible. I'm a woman so trust me, women always spend hours to dress up and make up all just for the sake of getting all eyes on them. Fact is, a women feels superior than those of the same gender when men sinfully admires each part of her body, it makes her feel like a queen. Perhaps its girl power. Once I asked a simple question to a woman who was sexually harassed by her guy buddy -- "why did you wear so sexy?" Check the answer -- "I don't know why all guys demands sex from me, I just love wearing sexy clothes, it's not that I wanna show off my body to men, I just feel good wearing em', it's my taste in fashion". At that instant I really felt she was thinking that I am a fool to believe in that ridiculous statement of hers. Women who are naturally beautiful could make men speechless and bedazzled with their radiance that comes from within. A true beauty does not need to cover her face with too much of make up, light make up would do or she doesn't need one anyway and her personality would be rich and powerful enough to make a man melt in her arms. She could be covered in loose fitting clothes, or wearing a full hijab (headscarf) with just exposing her face and hands but the impact she has on the way she talks using her brains and brings herself confidently will be a surefire a big turn on to men. The naked truth is that women who exposes too much of skin are just inconfident of their looks and personality. Skin is just an alternative of cheap publicity.
A fake women catches her prey (men of course) by pretending to act as if they have great friends, looking always happy and cheerful and on top of those gibberish sickening dramas they love to act as if they are naive inexperienced women. The fakers have set in their mind their long-term mission -- to get men and more men that she can keep in her pocket. They don't seem to comprehend the true meaning of love, what they actually know off is just lust. Lust seems to be love to them. A fake women could act as if no men has seen her naked before nor she has been touched by men. They date multiple men at once, go to bed with all the men and yet some could even confess that they have never seen how semen looks like.Does that mean they have been playing football or a game of hide and seek all night long? Nonsense. Their facial expressions could trick anyone as they are professionals in gaining trust of people around them. Faking an accent wouldn't be any problem too and not to forget wearing double padded bra for that glorious voluptuous full breast look.
Usually fake women would tell many blatant lies to their girlfriends, they always do. This is done purely to gain acceptance in a the cirle of friends and to make the girlfriends envy and feel jealous for their success in collecting men and luxury in their pathetic life. Fakers would make other believe they have it all-- love, money,great friends,great lifestyle. Sometimes they lie too much and when another person finds out the truth about the fakers activities, trusting them back would be just impossible. The question is what are the consequences of women that loves to fake it? Personally I guess in the long -run these fakers would loose their real identity, hell they would have forgotten who they really are. They keep lying to others and to themselves by creating many imaginary stories about themselves which in the end lead them to have a fake personality that is far from who they really are beneath the assumed identity they currently live with. They keep assuring to themselves that everything is fine when the fact is they runaway from the absolute truth about their true personality. This could lead to a bad psychological disorder that these fake women will never realize of having a disorder that could turn severe if left untreated. Inferiority complex and low self -esteem are one of the disorders. Fakers are so uncomfortable being themselves and assume someone will only like them if they are a mirror of the other person. Fakers are so insecure that they feel the overpowering need to feel accepted by everyone. This is a crisis because they'll never experience the satisfaction of just being "you' in any relationship that comes. The good part is most women would eventually grow out of it as they gain experiences which could boost their confidence in later years. On the other hand, sadly, some never do.
My advice to all the real women out there, be proud of who you really are and be yourself and to all those fake ones, you girls are just pathetic!
Women. There's a simple basic fact that would never change across time -- men can't live without sex and women can't live without makeup. While many women tend to be moderate in making beautifying themselves, there is a certain percentage of women who just loves exaggeration and here I have some thoughtful insights on what I actually mean.
There are two groups of women; the naturals & the fakers. The naturals are women who are not just naturally beautiful ( which is a gift of God ) they also posses a strong personality that men would define as, "women for keeps". A classic example would be Audrey Hepburn. Look closer to her facial characteristics and you can right away recognizer that smile on her face proves that her beauty and simplicity comes from within. On the other hand, the fakers are women who I would classify as not only fakes beauty (physical appearance) but also fakes their character and personality tremendously. Two words -- Pam Anderson.
All my life I've came across many types of women -- sexy, brilliant, vulnerable, headstrong, loud, quiet, funny, simple, soft-spoken, weird, emotional, vibrant, dull and the list goes on. Believe me or not, I've met more fake women that natural ones. Well, rare pearls are so precious, they are worth digging for right?. A real man would certainly know how to differentiate between the natural and the fake one. Usually most ordinary men are just suckers for the fake ones most probably the cause is sex, sex and just sex.
Here I would like to emphasize on my encounters of fake women during my times in the university. Basically the fakers would try their best to fake almost anything that comes to mind. First off, the make-over. If you want to indentify the faker, just take a good look at her face when she walks under the sunlight. The "glow" from the foundation that covers up her face including the thick layer of lipstick ( shocking red/pink shades )that makes her look as if she has just walked out of performing in a Chinese opera would scare you on the spot. I don't see no crime in putting soft lip-gloss on. But why in the world a woman puts on a solid red lipstick when she's aint going to a ball, or maybe some specific occasion that truly demands it. The fakers hide their real look beneath the heavy make up they have put on. Just imagine how does a cake really looks underneath thick glorious icing. If make up was mend for aesthetic values, it should be used moderately.
The skin. It's easy to distinguish women who wears a two-piece bikini at the beach (obviously for swimming purpose) and those who are daring to bare their skin unneccesarily at almost any occasions. The fake women are usually unsecured with how well their facial attributes could attract public attention especially men. So the easy solution would be to bare skin (plus the cleavage) as much as possible. I'm a woman so trust me, women always spend hours to dress up and make up all just for the sake of getting all eyes on them. Fact is, a women feels superior than those of the same gender when men sinfully admires each part of her body, it makes her feel like a queen. Perhaps its girl power. Once I asked a simple question to a woman who was sexually harassed by her guy buddy -- "why did you wear so sexy?" Check the answer -- "I don't know why all guys demands sex from me, I just love wearing sexy clothes, it's not that I wanna show off my body to men, I just feel good wearing em', it's my taste in fashion". At that instant I really felt she was thinking that I am a fool to believe in that ridiculous statement of hers. Women who are naturally beautiful could make men speechless and bedazzled with their radiance that comes from within. A true beauty does not need to cover her face with too much of make up, light make up would do or she doesn't need one anyway and her personality would be rich and powerful enough to make a man melt in her arms. She could be covered in loose fitting clothes, or wearing a full hijab (headscarf) with just exposing her face and hands but the impact she has on the way she talks using her brains and brings herself confidently will be a surefire a big turn on to men. The naked truth is that women who exposes too much of skin are just inconfident of their looks and personality. Skin is just an alternative of cheap publicity.
A fake women catches her prey (men of course) by pretending to act as if they have great friends, looking always happy and cheerful and on top of those gibberish sickening dramas they love to act as if they are naive inexperienced women. The fakers have set in their mind their long-term mission -- to get men and more men that she can keep in her pocket. They don't seem to comprehend the true meaning of love, what they actually know off is just lust. Lust seems to be love to them. A fake women could act as if no men has seen her naked before nor she has been touched by men. They date multiple men at once, go to bed with all the men and yet some could even confess that they have never seen how semen looks like.Does that mean they have been playing football or a game of hide and seek all night long? Nonsense. Their facial expressions could trick anyone as they are professionals in gaining trust of people around them. Faking an accent wouldn't be any problem too and not to forget wearing double padded bra for that glorious voluptuous full breast look.
Usually fake women would tell many blatant lies to their girlfriends, they always do. This is done purely to gain acceptance in a the cirle of friends and to make the girlfriends envy and feel jealous for their success in collecting men and luxury in their pathetic life. Fakers would make other believe they have it all-- love, money,great friends,great lifestyle. Sometimes they lie too much and when another person finds out the truth about the fakers activities, trusting them back would be just impossible. The question is what are the consequences of women that loves to fake it? Personally I guess in the long -run these fakers would loose their real identity, hell they would have forgotten who they really are. They keep lying to others and to themselves by creating many imaginary stories about themselves which in the end lead them to have a fake personality that is far from who they really are beneath the assumed identity they currently live with. They keep assuring to themselves that everything is fine when the fact is they runaway from the absolute truth about their true personality. This could lead to a bad psychological disorder that these fake women will never realize of having a disorder that could turn severe if left untreated. Inferiority complex and low self -esteem are one of the disorders. Fakers are so uncomfortable being themselves and assume someone will only like them if they are a mirror of the other person. Fakers are so insecure that they feel the overpowering need to feel accepted by everyone. This is a crisis because they'll never experience the satisfaction of just being "you' in any relationship that comes. The good part is most women would eventually grow out of it as they gain experiences which could boost their confidence in later years. On the other hand, sadly, some never do.
My advice to all the real women out there, be proud of who you really are and be yourself and to all those fake ones, you girls are just pathetic!
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